I've just started an adult apprenticeship as the first female in this specific trade.
Mostly I've felt welcomed but there is one colleague that, well, isn't welcoming.
So far I've tried not reacting but he seems to escalate because hes not getting a response. When I do respond, he becomes almost unresponsive and near impossible to work with (he will simply blank me). It's like he goads me but then becomes upset that a woman has 'questioned' him. Other colleagues have commented on how rude he can be towards me but mostly keep clear of it (I don't blame them).
I'm mostly asking for advice from other women working in engineering. How do i handle this?
This job requires a great deal of trust in the people you're working with so I don't want to report him just yet as I know this could make others wary of working with me. At the same time I don't want to listen to his comments of "all women are prostitutes" and "once a woman's been bred they're no good" as well as being blanked completely.
Please help!
Exasperated of Exeter.
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