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60% of male managers feel uncomfortable participating in work activities with women

I came across this article today which has some very alarming statistics in it. The article discusses the results of a survey from LeanIn.org which found that senior-level men say they are:
  • 12 times more likely to be hesitant about one-on-one meetings with a junior woman than they are a junior man

  • 9 times more likely to be hesitant to travel with a junior woman for work than a junior man, and

  • 6 times more likely to be hesitant to have a work dinner with a junior woman than a junior man.


Read more at: https://www.cnbc.com/2019/05/17/60percent-of-male-managers-now-say-theyre-uncomfortable-mentoring-women.html


The article discusses these findings in relation to being a possible consequence of the #MeToo and Time’s Up movements, which they imply may have had a negative impact on relationships between men and women at work. This is countered by suggestions that any man who doesn’t want to have work dinners with a woman should also not have work dinners with a man. Instead, they should have group dinners so that everyone is included. But at a group dinner, is it harder to be heard if you have a new idea you want to pitch or have some personal thoughts you want to discuss?


Has the workplace changed following the #MeToo and Time's Up movements? Are men more wary of coming across in the wrong way? And is this affecting women's access to mentorship programmes or other opportunities?


I would be interested to know if anyone here has felt reluctant to have one-to-one meetings, work dinners or make travel arrangements with colleagues/managers/employees of the opposite sex? Do you feel more comfortable with colleagues of the same gender or is it irrelevant to you? Or does it depend on the relative seniority of the people involved?


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    I was recently at a workshop run by a trade union on sexual harassment. What came through very clearly is that harassment happens when there is a power imbalance of any kind, and it's not something you can simply point the finger at only men for. Men will likely be harassed if they're in a work environment dominated by women (there are far fewer of such workplaces, so women are still getting harassed more).


    Contrary to popular belief, men rarely have anything to fear. False accusations are rare, and even when there is an incident women rarely report them. I feel like the backlash from men towards #metoo is an overreaction and, call me cynical, a means to shift the debate from women talking about their experiences in the workplace to paranoid albeit innocent men making out that they are the real victims here.


    I say all of this as someone who's the only man in a team of 12! I'm not concerned. 


    I'd suggest reading this article and attached guidance: https://www.prospect.org.uk/help-at-work/support-advice/sexual-harassment
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  • Former Community Member
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    I was recently at a workshop run by a trade union on sexual harassment. What came through very clearly is that harassment happens when there is a power imbalance of any kind, and it's not something you can simply point the finger at only men for. Men will likely be harassed if they're in a work environment dominated by women (there are far fewer of such workplaces, so women are still getting harassed more).


    Contrary to popular belief, men rarely have anything to fear. False accusations are rare, and even when there is an incident women rarely report them. I feel like the backlash from men towards #metoo is an overreaction and, call me cynical, a means to shift the debate from women talking about their experiences in the workplace to paranoid albeit innocent men making out that they are the real victims here.


    I say all of this as someone who's the only man in a team of 12! I'm not concerned. 


    I'd suggest reading this article and attached guidance: https://www.prospect.org.uk/help-at-work/support-advice/sexual-harassment
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