As most know I lost my wife, in a bad way, some 21 years' ago, and everyone was saying... "you'll get over it' but, you don't! What you have to do, and I've been in some very very 'dark' places my friend, is move on!
What you have to do is reach out to others for help, like us, and I guarantee that something will pop up for you.
One thing my dad used to say was... "one door closes and another door opens" and even in bad times... that has been proven for me!
We lose a pet, our car gets stolen and we lose our jobs OR, lose a loved one, (in whatever means that maybe like death or them leaving, if they have left it's like a bad tooth... get it out and move on), and all of this is called 'bereavement'... come on, you owe someone on here 4 pints and that's SERIOUS stuff sunshine!!
All I / we can say is, stop messing about... get your tools OUT as I KNOW that there's lot's to do around your home... no sitting and messing about... do it! Hahaha!!
Smile and the world smiles with you... etc, we're in bad time's so be strong! ?
As most know I lost my wife, in a bad way, some 21 years' ago, and everyone was saying... "you'll get over it' but, you don't! What you have to do, and I've been in some very very 'dark' places my friend, is move on!
What you have to do is reach out to others for help, like us, and I guarantee that something will pop up for you.
One thing my dad used to say was... "one door closes and another door opens" and even in bad times... that has been proven for me!
We lose a pet, our car gets stolen and we lose our jobs OR, lose a loved one, (in whatever means that maybe like death or them leaving, if they have left it's like a bad tooth... get it out and move on), and all of this is called 'bereavement'... come on, you owe someone on here 4 pints and that's SERIOUS stuff sunshine!!
All I / we can say is, stop messing about... get your tools OUT as I KNOW that there's lot's to do around your home... no sitting and messing about... do it! Hahaha!!
Smile and the world smiles with you... etc, we're in bad time's so be strong! ?