Andy Millar:
please note I fully agree that schools aren't doing everything they could to help develop social and team skills, so let's change them so they do.
Roy Bowdler:
- “Social Skills” and the acquisition of social capital (aka connections) are the main reasons why people invest significant sums in private education. Academic selection and focus (e.g. Grammar Schools) can achieve similar if not higher attainment in “academic” subjects. Based on a relatively small sample of acquaintances over the years, both Eton and Millfield spring to mind as different but equally admirable?
Arran Cameron:
Major reforms to the curriculum are easier said than done.
Andy Millar:
While I've got a couple of minutes on the train, I want to very strongly support this point. My experience has been that (in a business context) those who have been to private and public schools have, on average, much better social and communication skills than those who have been to state schools.. Which to me goes to show that it can be done - so PLEASE let's get state schools up towards that same level!
Alasdair Anderson:
Arran,
Very good point, but as Andy said in a different post, it is actually more complicated than that. I agree that the home environment makes a difference, but I would like to chip in with some personal experience. My daughter was at the local primary school and, as my wife and I were both working, was then picked up by a childminder who looked after her until one of us was able to get home to pick her up. There was also a nearby boarding school and the fees for having her as a Day Boarder (i.e. attending potentially from 7a.m. to 7p.m. and doing her homework in the school with help from teachers) was no more expensive than the childminder. When she was old enough to start there (Year 3) we therefore moved her there, gaining fantastic school facilities such as swimming pool, horse riding and a vast range of sports in the process, but we noticed within a year that her confidence and social skills had blossomed, far more than just one year older could explain. The home environment had not changed. so that only leaves the school environment to explain the boost.
I can well believe that. People are shaped by the people who they associate with. Children who associate with people with good social skills and high moral standards tend to acquire them - as long as they meet a minimum standard to start with and the social gap between them and their peers is not too large as to cause potential incompatibilities such as coming from a dysfunctional family, clashes of culture, or unusual psychological conditions like Asperger syndrome. Children who associate with riff-raff almost always end up as riff-raff themselves.
Large numbers of parents want their children to attend private schools, not because the quality of the academic education is any higher or the facilities for activities are better than at state schools, but in order that they mix with kids from decent families and not riff-raff.
A bit like if you work in a perfumery you end up smelling of perfume but if you work in a forge you end up smelling of smoke.
By the way, I am curious about children holding sufficient knowledge about types of wine that you mention in your final paragraph. Is this something you feel should be taught in state schools?
To help differentiate between children who come from higher socioeconomic group families and which children are clever but uncultured council estate kids who ace the maths and English entrance exams!
Some home educating parents (even from poorer or lower class backgrounds) I have met have mentioned that it's a good idea for their children to learn cultural stuff often known by families from higher class backgrounds and a bit of Latin as it will help them with career development by making them appear to come from a higher class background than they actually do. Social class is more a case of culture and attitudes than your family's background or financial status. I think successive governments have failed to notice this when carrying out educational reforms. Academics aren't everything and social skills do include knowing which wine to pair with which food.
BTW I don't drink wine or know much about it.
Roy Bowdler:
- Unless someone acquires fundamental numeracy and literacy early, then much of teenage education is wasted and is just “childminding”.
- Testing at an early age might focus attention, but dysfunctionally also creates fear, failure and an exam factory mentality at the expense of curiosity and a love of learning.
- Some young people may (perhaps due to a condition like dyslexia) struggle to gain functional literacy and numeracy, but every remedial effort should be made.
- Each young person has a different talents, aptitude or potential to succeed in different ways. They will also have different motivations derived from their personality and key influences. These traits are not fixed but emergent. The system generally and individual teachers need flexibility to nurture what emerges. Parents (or equivalent) also have a role.
- Engineering and Technology careers in particular illustrate well how opportunities for learning can be life-long. Regulators under the influence of academics and for bureaucratic convenience favour “deep theory first”, but experienced practitioners often illustrate a more flexible mix of applications supported by necessary and more modest theory.
- A significant range of latent talents such as sport, entertainment, practical skills and entrepreneurialism for example, tend to be poorly served by school academic syllabuses.
- “Social Skills” and the acquisition of social capital (aka connections) are the main reasons why people invest significant sums in private education. Academic selection and focus (e.g. Grammar Schools) can achieve similar if not higher attainment in “academic” subjects. Based on a relatively small sample of acquaintances over the years, both Eton and Millfield spring to mind as different but equally admirable?
I agree with this. What you have omitted, and it goes back to the OP, is anything about children who 'fail' at school socially:
Andy Millar:
Another thought, I think the most important thing for engineers is to realise that adequate social and communication skills can be learnt to a level sufficient to operate successfully in a modern engineering team and project environment. These are not set in stone at 18 (or whatever age) for the rest of your life. Of course this does involve the engineer in question recognising that they have a problem in the first place - most of us will have come across the type of engineer who believes that they are brilliant at communication and teamwork (and, indeed, everything else) and cannot understand why no-one else wants to work with them - and often why they keep getting made redundant. (Personally I started from a pretty low level, and am very much still learning.)
Andy Millar:
P.S. If you can teach engineers presentation and communication skills, and how to pass these on - which you definitely can - then it will also be possible to teach these to teachers. It's a case of seeing it as a problem and wanting to change it.
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